Thanksgiving Attire
and Thoughts...
Who knew just a plain white dress shirt can be so hot! So are you old school T day? I remember the days when we used to get dressed up for Thanksgiving. It was a bit more formal when I was younger and I suppose it is still a very formal dinner for some. You know..... dress to the nines....set the dinning room...table linens...using your best china and such... Excuse me Arnie but could you pass the me the Waterford gravy boat please? I do wish we had a formal dining room in our home as I would be doing this every year and it would be all so traditional and well....so gay!!! I don't think I have to elaborate do I .... Just call me Rad Homo Dean or Stewart please.....Anyways of course it has become much more casual through the years....at least for our family it has. I do look forward to the holiday as I love the camaraderie of it all...the eating, drinking, visiting and such...its like the opening event party to the season of many gatherings and get togethers. This year I find it more important than ever with my moms sickness and with the recession which seems to have everyone on edge.

I am just hoping my newly single sister brings some hot guy to our T-day festivities. Preferably one that looks like this above.....He can wear his dress shirt and forget the pants....phew! It getting hot in here!

Bum Tastic

Happy Monday! and how was your weekend? After seeing Levi Johnsons bum all over the place this weekend from his Playgirl feature....I thought we needed a replacement bum....Now in my book this is a bum! Its Bumtastic! Sorry Levi ...not to be all negative about your bum as your a very handsome boy and for many a very appealing man but your bum was a little of a disappointment...I did however post one of your front shots below which is adorable....so kudos for that....You are definitely a normal everyday dude and that alone is very hot!

Hot damm! Its a short week guys! My Monday morning is already busy as heck.....So are you ready for SPANKSgiving? Or as I heard someone call it SLAPSgiving this weekend....I am.... so bring it on!!

The Weekends Here- Yippee!
and its only 5 Days till Spankgiving!
TGIF! Week went by fairly quickly and I am ready for the weekend....are you? My Plans? None really...Well I do need to get some shopping done, pick up the house, maybe haul out a few Christmas items, pick up the garage and if the weather co-ops I will do the gutters. The weather has been wind and rain and more wind and rain..it has been crazy as all week we have had storm after storm blow in. It has been very wet! I hope we maybe get a break this weekend which would be nice. Can you believe Thanksgiving is only 5 days away? I am looking forward to it this year...spending time with family and making it special for my mom.... and then I am hoping to also get a good spankin as well! :-)

So hubby just asked me on how I feel as he is in the mood to have some people over for cocktails tonite.....So looks like we need to round up some friends today and see if anyone would like to come over to hang out....have cocktails, play some wii, snack/munch and sing and dance to some tunes.......Wanna come over too? Shoot me a e mail!

Double Date Night
Friday the 13th
Some pics from this past weekend....This was on Friday night when we went to that B day party-- the girls snapped some shots....good times!

The Spanksgiving Season
Time to Stuff it!
So Spanksgiving is 9 days away.....I wish this was already Spanksgiving week as then this would already be our short week of work.....Oh well.... I just hope this week goes by quickly. How was your weekend? We had a nice long weekend. Went to a nice 40th birthday for a nice gent we know on Friday night. Met a bunch of nice people and saw some old acquittance's as well. But there was one group of boys that flipped hubby and I attitude......they also did this last week at the bar we went too after another b day we attended (which BTW we never do--I think the last time we went to a gay bar was maybe last winter) Anyhow I loathe mean guys......I always wonder why there are pockets or a gaggles of gays that pick on others. You know the type-- bitchy, mean, spiteful, very crass....They look and snicker at ya and eye roll ya.....anyhow it takes everything in me to not go over and slap the shit out of them.....But hubby told me to be nice so I did. We just ignored them...Maybe I should post of pic of them and see what you think of them? I saw one this am in the party pics.....Now they are not special to look at..AT ALL...
Maybe that's why they are bitter queens? They are kinda ugly? ANYHOW.....

Saturday I cleaned up the yard-- which was a major workout with all the fall leaves...The leaves are beautiful but I cant wait for all of them to fly away or fall so I can do one last major cleaning of the yard....I still have to do the gutters too....YUCK! That's always no fun but I hope to get that done this next weekend or maybe the long Thanksgiving weekend. Went and got a Turkey yesterday...19.76 pounds. Jeff and I will be doing T-day at our house or my moms-- depending on how she feels--Spent time with mom all day yesterday and did a quick trip over to Costco....Mom is doing ok...she is off Oxy and now on old school methadone ....seems to help with her pain better......she still suffers but she is such a tough cookie...I wish I could just hang out with her and not work..... So its back to the daily grind today.....I was out on Friday so my workload should be fun today.....busy!!.....So I better get to it... Catch you all soon...XO

Dan Savage on What the Institution of Marriage Means

Rock on MR Savage!!!

SO SWEET
Today is my FRIDAY!!! Woot woot.....Now what should I do?

More GLEE Mania-
DNA MAG and Mark Salling
Mark Salling-- Our mohawked jock dude Puck in Glee is sure getting around..First Wendy and now he has talked to DNA Magazine for the November Issue #118.

DNA: How are you finding Australia?
Mark: It's great.

Most Americans say that but when we spoke to Margaret Cho she said it's like flying halfway across the world to go to Houston.
[Laughs] Houston's miserable, so I don't know about that.

When you signed up for Glee did you expect it to become as big as it has?
I knew it was a great script and I was excited to be a part of it but you never know how people are going to react. But I'm stoked people have taken to it the way they have.

Why do you think it has taken off?
There's nothing like it on TV. It's original. People like musicals and shows where they can follow the plotlines. It's well written and there are so many different people it can appeal to.

Since it's started have you been recognized on the street?
Not al all. Never.

Not even with the hair?
No

Is the haircut you have for the show?
It's for the show.

Do you like it?
I like it on doses. I liked it for a while then it started to haunt me.

Tell us about the character you play.
I play a guy named Puck. His full name is Noah Puckerman and he's a jerk at the beginning of the series. He gives his friend Finn at hard time for being in the glee club but eventually joins himself. Hopefully he'll be somewhat more likeable and accessible as the series goes on, instead of such a douche bag.

Where you as mean as your character in school?
I was worse. Even worse ... No, I was a nice guy.

Do you get to sing and dance?
I do.

How is that for you?
The dancing is a bit of a stretch. I'm not a dancer and never have been but our choreographer really walks us through it. The singing is fun but the dancing is hard.

Have you done any training?
No, never.

So there's a bit of autotune going on?
Oh, I had singing training but not dancing. But there's autotune for everybody - some more than others.

What's the best song you've performed?
Probably Sweet Caroline by Neil Diamond.

Did you realise you were going to get gay fans because of Glee?
I didn't, but its a musical so I guess it's to be expected.

How do you feel being named one of DNA's Sexiest Men Alive 2009?
Oh, wow. Well, I'm not going to argue. I'm flattered. That's great.

Nov 11 2009
Day to HONOR All Our Veterans...
I know I am ready to honor a few....

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. ~John Fitzgerald Kennedy

I have the MONDAY Blues
Zac Efron Pics to the Rescue...

Mondays kinda blow don't you think? And not the good blows.....So its back to work and I wish I had more days to play and or relax....Zac Efron helps a bit today.....just look at him....wow.......I feel much better better already....LOL.. We had a busy weekend-- got all the work done around the house on Saturday and then went the party I told you all about and then actually went out to the bars on Saturday night and had a good time...haven't don't that in quite sometime....Lots of nice gents...and lots of strong cocktails.....so I had to nurse a slight hangover yesterday.... we did go and see the Michael Jackson movie--This Is It...in the morning.....It was really really good....then spent the afternoon on the sectional with the hubby and kids and watched Season 4 of Weeds....We hadn't watched any of it yet so just had a marathon.....That Hunter Parrish kid is really cute....Well back to the work week....May it PLEASE go quickly!! More Monday Therapy below...

HEY SAILOR...
its FRIDAY!!

Whom most of you know I call this fella my other husband-- Mr Derrick Davenport....I haven't seen any new pics of him lately? I wonder what he is up to these days? SO TGIF folks! I am happy its the weekend again...So we have a semi busy weekend ahead...A big B day bash for a friend tomorrow......Private party at Chapel....how fancy eh? Thats the big event.....other than that I plan to clean the house and take down the Halloween stuff tomorrow and then add the Thanksgiving fall stuff......try to visit with my mom...... Plan to see the Michael Jackson movie on Sunday with some friends on a double date brunch/movie.....I want to see it on the big screen....I hope your weekends a good one too!

UPDATE 11-23 --Oh my-- thanks to KEVIN at The Lisp....Heres a few good ones! NSFW

Referendum 71
Vote by vote...It will hopefully pass.

While supporters of the measure were optimistic of a win, both sides said it was too close to call.
The narrow lead in votes to approve Referendum 71 widened slightly yesterday and as of late Wednesday afternoon, about 51.65 percent of votes counted thus far were to approve R-71 and 48.35 percent were to reject it. The Secretary of State's Office estimates about 600,000 ballots statewide are still outstanding, with about 300,000 of them expected from King County, where the measure is being approved by about 2 to 1.

Here is a sad thing-Every county east of the Cascades has rejected Referendum 71. Sad but not surprising....as its totally due to the blue collar and religious stronghold across our state....The lopsided results over expansion of the state's domestic-partnership law does show the challenge all supporters of gay rights have in winning over all Washingtonians as we seek full equality. More Here...

Halloween 2009
Not the greatest pics but the only ones we got...wish we got some body shots...we had some fierce looks!! I look so grumpy...LOL...One above is this year with one of the host John and the one below is last year with John as well......good times!

More....

Team Kellan Lutz--
My Fave Superhero
I am Team Kellan for sure...forget about the other 2 Twilighters......he hits my super hero fetish BIG TIME!!I am sure you all have seen these..but just in case .....Way More here.....

Mark Salling
Just a good ol handsome lad from Texas!

Speaking of the Wendy Williams show and how she has the best guest....see post below.....she had Mark Salling (Puck from GLEE) on yesterday....it was his first talk show appearance...boy he is handsome! Hot Damm! A nice guy from Texas too-he was kinda shy and oh so polite....and so darn cute.....Are you watching GLEE yet? Get with it already folks! I suggest you You Tube his Sweet Caroline performance too!

The Wendy Williams Show
Shout it out...Its the BEST!!

A new guilty pleasure ...so we put into our DVR's que all the talk shows--Ellen, Oprah, etc... they all tape daily and in afternoon/evening we check see if any are worth watching due to the guest and topics....What is funny is we hardly ever end up watching Ellen or Oprah...Maybe once in a blue moon they will have a guest ( Whitney, Micheal Jackson Story etc) that I will sit to watch -- but usually I fast forward to the guest that I like and then its a delete.... BUT a show I have been watching EVERYDAY for the last 2 months is WENDY WILLIAMS!! LOVE HER and this show!!! Has anyone watched this yet? She is the best.....She is fun to watch and I just love her and her Hot Topics and her Wig and just everything about her and her new show....She is REAL!!! Please check it out and you will be a fan for sure!

It is kinda low tech in production....( hence they have a fly problem) it kinda reminds me of Rupauls low budget production he had with Drag Race...But like Ru and his upcoming season 2....I see a very big budget for both of them for the next seasons.......her show is on fire! TOTAL gay approved and you know what that means.....ITS HOT and will be super mainstream soon....We pick it first....She has the best guest too!! So How You Doing?

This Is Halloween

Happy Halloween Everyone!

I Say A Little Prayer

So many people are redoing this from Glee...Brings a big big smile to my face......Derek hurry and move over so we can re do this too!! LMAO!!! These Guys rock it..... Check You Tube for a bunch of versions!!

Here comes HALLOWEEN!

Halloweens in a few days !!! Last year I was Amy Winehouse-- Look back in my archives if you want to see that mess...It was fun but I hate doing any drag it was too much work....the year before I was a skeleton...thats me above in 07......So this year I am doing it easy and I am going as a goth....Hubby is going as a punker.....should be fun and easy....We have a bash on Friday and then another on Saturday night and then a fang banger late night after hours vampire party on Saturday at 12am! I will put in some teeth for the fang banger event and just be a goth vampire....I am excited for the weekend!! I promise to try to take some pics! I love Halloween!

Holy Smokes!

Holy smokes! Very ahem...nice...Model Hugh Plummer--Check out this months new DNA  
 

Joe Jonas
a new haircut
Now thats sooooo much better!

Been Hanging
So major hangover on Sunday--haven't really suffered with a hangover in a long time! I usually stick to vodka drinks and can really slam them down and rarely do I have a hangover ....But on Saturday night we went to a Halloween cocktail party and a bunch of us boys got to drinking a giant and I mean giant bottle of Crown Royal. Nothing like Crown on the rocks! Well we had a good time and needless to say I felt no pain and I think I made out with a boy.....and then I .....well that's for me to share at another time......I was a bad boy or good boy depending on who you talk too...... but man I was dead to the world on Sunday....We did manage to go to the Mall on Sunday morning to do a quick shop ( hubby needed a mohawk for this upcoming Saturday/Hallween night) and then we had lunch....Spent the rest of the afternoon on the sectional with the kids.....Yesterday...work was hard......man I was dragging! I was tired and could hardly focus....I kept thinking swine flu....But I am much better today and I am happy to be back in the world of the living....I just cant believe It took me a few days to recover....Boy I am getting old.... If it was a cold I think I killed it all with that Crown....

Glee Mania

So when they had the preview show this summer back in May......I mentioned how much a monster hit this was going to be.......and yes its getting bigger and bigger everyday.....Its going to be a monster alright!  Get on the Glee train folks!!  I want to see you give me your best song and dance!!!

Self Pics

Home today--Hubby had to work a Saturday shift...for some reason woke up a few hours ago  feeling yucky...Took a bunch of vitamins and a energy drink deal.....God I hope I am not getting sick!!!  Fuck!!  So playing on my mac and took some pics....Wow this thing is fun.....I can make movies and videos too!  Well I better go eat something--soup is good food....I hope I feel better after I eat....

TGIF!!!
My TOTAL type and I am sure yours as well....Such perfection! Mr Joseph Sayers by Hudson Wright. Whoo Whooey its finaly FRIDAY! Its the weekend and time to go out and have some good fun. We have this weekend and next that is overflowing with events!!! It should be a grand time and I am excited for it all...Cocktail partys! Brunches! A Date Night! A threeway! ....he he he....Weekends don't get much more fun then this.... Hope you all have a splendid weekend as well..... Want to see more of Jospeh? Check it ........More here

Pumpkin Time!
So its that time again to go out and get your pumpkins for the annual Halloween carving.....Hubby and I have to get going on our carving this week as this is our goal for next Saturday nite--we need to carve about 20 each per day at least-- these were taken of our house last year.....Isn't it so awesome? We had people from all over the state stop to check it out and we were even on the local news.... and I only had blisters that took about a month to heal form all the carving........Ok.... I am a big fat liar....Can you imagine having this many fricken pumpkins? I do love it..... Here's another pic of our backyard.....Ok another lie..... he he he

Thankful Thursday Treat
Charlie G William is my Thursday treat....Delish! God... can this week move any slower? Maybe its because I am looking forward to the weekend? Nothing going on this week except work work work--which is super busy and you would think that would make my days go faster.....nope...Not so lucky with that. I just noticed this guy is wearing a playboy belt...how 80's...I like it....His skin reminds me of a vanilla shake....I love vanilla shakes!

Oh Goodie Goodie!!
Oh Goodie Goodie!! and TEE HEE HEE! Halloween is almost here! Here is one of my all time fave characters from the Bugs Bunny Franchise- Lonney Toons! Good ol Witch Hazel! She would cackle and then jet off leaving a few hairpins in the air.... love it ...she was a hot mess before her time! LOL

I am looking forward to the weekend....A few Halloween Cocktail party's and lots going on and it should be fun....I love fall....Now how do we make this week move faster? Maybe Witch Hazel can help with one of her spells?

Happy Hump Day!
How about some Renato Ferreira to heat up our Wednesday......

A Day at the Office

This is a lot of Fun...Lets do this with our MAC books!!! Great old school Backstreet Boys!!

Fall Is Here...

Just a few pics I took the other day on our patio with my phone.....Isn't its so fallish! I Love it... and love the mums!--- I get one every year and then transplant to the yard and they come back....I should of taken a pic of the mums I have planted year after year as well...Will try to do that soon... You can tell that fall is late to arrive as the garden still looks pretty good...but that is changing as we speak as yesterday the cool rain and very breezy conditions started and leaves are everywhere...so the garden will be changing real soon....

The cute pumpkins below are the ones the hubby carved for our cocktail party on Saturday night.....Our annual fall cocktail candle party was a good time and we had about 20 plus people come over! The red apple martinis were a hit as were all my baking ....People thought they were store bought bake goods....that was nice. Well Rad Crocker is off to sales meetings all day and this evening for work today. Oh joy joy!

Just saying....

Until one has loved an animal, A part of one's soul remains unawakened...

The Fall weather is here...Blustery, cool and rainy....Seattle lites were in amazement yesterday as we watched our rain return....We can go back to our flannels, coats and Northwest sports wear. It was hard to get out of bed this am with the doggies all snuggled in with us thats for sure. Maile above asked me to stay home but I had to come into work......I just gotta win that damm lotto soon...

Thursdays Treat
Chris Campanioni

Say Hello to Thursdays treat--Chris Campanioni....Trick or Treat? I say both when it comes to this handsome fella! So its the end of my week as I am working 1/2 day today! Hip Hip Hooray! We have to take one of the kids "Alika" to his dermatologist today for a appointment-- It should be his last of a study he has been in. Our vet/dermatologist suggested a study to partake in when I said we could not afford all his meds anymore as the cost is crazy! So our silver fox vet Dr Mundell...more on that another time....put him in this 2 month study on this new drug that should be out to vets in about a year or two. I think it has helped him a bunch and now he will be able to get the drug if we want it for the rest of his lifetime...I am hopeful that it helps Alika with all his allergies in the long run.
Tomorrow I also have the day off....I need to get some things done around the house and spend some time with the kids as we will be out tomorrow night for a concert.....I am super excited for the concert as its a group that I grew up listening too and it will surely make me cry---or as they say back home it will give me CHICKEN SKIN!! Its a Hawaiian Contemporary group--Cecilio and Kapono-- and they are touring and will be in Seattle tomorrow night....The hubby and I love them and we are going with my dad, uncle and sister....
Saturday is our Annual Fall/Halloween Cocktail and Candle party....We do a fall thing every year and then every other we do a candle thing with it as well...We do up the cocktails and snacks and its always a great time......We have been doing this for over 10 years now and its funny as when we started boys or men didn't really have candle, Tupperware or Pampered Chef parties -- well that has surely changed! It nice to have all our friends over as we all burn candles ( don't we?). Its time to stock up on them anyhow as candle burning season has begun!

So the house is fully decorated for fall and Halloween and it should be a great party to welcome FALL!! If your in the Seattle area please do call or e mail me as we would love to have you over...Red Apple Martinis will be ready and many other yummy beverages....How about some Chili and Corn bread and lots of yummy goodies and snacks? You sure you dont want to come over?

Loving the Boys of GLEE...

Now don't get me wrong--I love so may things about this show GLEE...the singing....the dancing...the gay characters.... and the drama......but I also love the boys! Boys boys boys that can sing and dance and are handsome too! Total my cup of tea! My favorite guy is of course FIN played by Cory Monteith above.....Hes what I call total dreamboat! I know I sound like a schoolgirl...its the whole Glee thing so I apologize....LOL If you haven't checked out the show yet....I suggest you do so!

Here is another of that dreamboat Cory Monteith....

Gay Kurt-- Played by Chirs Colfer!! Great to see a gay character on TV!!!Puck-- Played by Mark Sallin
And My Kind of Teacher-- Will ....played by Matthew Morrison -- Va va va voom!

Dont ask me why he is in his undies-I just found it on the web...LOL

Time To Giddy Up!
The Weekends upon us
Ride em cowboys! I am so happy the weekend is upon us! Work is really depressing these days as I absolutely hate it and hope it changes soon or rather my attitude changes soon.... I know I should be happy I have a job and believe it or not I did get a mini raise a few weeks ago. I think they sensed I was getting fed up with it all ....So I have to appreciate that gesture. Now don't get me wrong I am totally grateful for a job and the raise....Im just in in funk right now....I think it maybe that I need a vacation, Some time off to recoup and re-energize and get some R and R would do me some good......but with mom sick its hard to schedule something to be away. Maybe something will work out soon...I need a break!
So I wore my cowboy boots today....thought it was kinda fallish...Thats why I was in the mood for a cowboy pic post today.....Is it just me or does wearing boots make you feel sexy? I like it...it really sorta makes me feel all hot and kinda horny... Even more so if you are in just some boots and your undies! Happy Friday!

Start Your Engines!
Vroom Vroom

Start your engines! It is ALMOST the weekend! Is it just me or is this week totally dragging! Well it sure is for me....Maybe its the change of weather? Can you beleive its already October? Its already the tail end of the year!