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Heres some cute mans...

And how are you this day after St Pattys? Hope all is well! Have a great weekend!

time to roll into the week.....

Monday Monday...Blah blah....Had a crazy busy week last week and I think its about to be the same this week....busy busy!

I love skate boys.....while growing up my cousins used to be really good skateboarders and bikers and so they were an influence on me since they were older......so I got into it all as well especially bikes but I was never as good on a skateboard like they were. It was a form of transpo for us--at least us kind of boys....I think back to my youth even in high school and I was always on a bike or skateboard as I could never could afford a car......oh well...I can thank all that biking and such for keeping me in great shape and for that bubble butt I was rewarded with.....

Well onward and upward to the week....Have a good one!

Pretty Boy

I have a thing for this pretty boy...Looking good Zac!

Happy March

Happy March! I was in a furry mood today! I cant believe its already March.

Busy as a bee....

bzzzzzzz... I have been busy as a bee and it seems my blogging has been the one to suffer....I do go out and read my fave blogs but I don't have the time these days to post as much.....Shit! But hope you understand.....I hope to be more "with it" soon....Hope you all had a nice holiday weekend and all is well. Had to post a Darren Criss pic....hes a doll and can you imagine him singing to you? Love them Glee boys...... See the whole spread in OUT here...... Keep in touch as I am an e mail away! xo Rad

Happy Valentines Day

Hope you all have a good lova's day! xo Rad

Love is in the air.....

Its a Valentine weekend...... Hope all is well and you all have some love...or lust....or just some plain old dirty sex to make it a good one...

Super Bowl Sunday

Have a nice Superbowl Sunday! I know many of you will be watching the game and going to parties and such and some of us just go shopping at the mall... Whatever you do hope it's super....

Happy Friday

How u doing? I have been busy! I so didn't want to get out of bed this am but decided I better get this day started and got up....Then noticed the furnace didn't fire up and so it must of went out again! Had a guy come check it last week and it had some clogging of oil or something to that effect and he tuned it up and fixed it.....Well I thought he did....anyhow it went off again and I am pissed. Unexpected shit like this is not needed when money is tight but we can only take a deep breath and well you know just swallow....LOL! Grrrrr!!!

Got alot going on this weekend.....One of my BFF's is having her citizenship party tonite. She became a US citizen about a month ago. She is from Sweden and I just adore her. We met a few years ago and hit it off from he moment we met. She has developed into a very close dear heart and I am so happy for her....So she and her hubby Shawn are having the shindig at a place in Belltown to celebrate....The Rendezvous- The Grotto........Should be a blast! And the guest list is good! Will be nice to see alot old friends and colleagues..... woot woot! I am sure we will have a marvy time! I wanted to go get a haircut and a new outfit...but now maybe not with the furnace eating up the extra cash! DAMMMIT! Oh well I am sure I can figure something out. Rads wardrobe closet is vast and I m sure I can dig up something cute....sigh....I have to be a recession unemployed fashionista I guess....

Tomorrow night we have another B day party to attend---Her name is Juku and she is a havenese.....Its a dog party! She is best buds with our kids.....I helped our gal pals find her years ago so I am kinda a god parent! It should be entertaining.

Well hope all is well with you and hope our weekends nice! Catch ya soon! xo Rad

HAPPY 5th BIRTHDAY to me...

RAD HOMO

Today is my tiny little blogs 5th birthday/anniversary! Hard to believe that 5 years ago today I thought it would be fun to start a blog for some fun...Didn't know I would be here 5 years later still blogging. It started as The Adventures of a Rad Ass Homo...I thought it would be fun to post and keep track of my adventures...back then most fellow blog mates and I referred myself as RAH and it was much more media related....It has changed over the years and now its just A Rad Homo and I use RAD instead of RAH and the content has changed a bit but it has also stayed true to me. Its still my online diary of sorts and I have come to think of it as my online scrapbook---nothing to major or deep....well sometimes it is..... It has been fun and so well worth it. I love to go back and see what I was up too in years past and look at my likes-dislikes and how I change....oh and how I have such fine taste in men! he he.....

The best part of my blog is the friends and people I have been able to connect with due to blogging... All across the world even....I have been able to meet allot of fine folks and some have become very good friends! Its just incredible the support I get when times are tough and cheers when times are good...its so damm cool and heartwarming and so many of you can be considered family in my heart....I love you guys! You know who you are! :-)

Well looks like I get to go get a cupcake or something today to celebrate this! 5 Years! WOW!

JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE & ANDREW GARFIELD

Pic from the latest issue of W mag....So we just watched The Social Network last week....It was good right! I haven't watched the Golden Globes from last night as its still on the DVR...but I heard The Social Network picked up 4 awards including best drama movie.... Kudos!

Week started with need for new tires....

What a week....Started with a blow out on interstate 5 last Saturday.....We were on our way in pouring rain up north and then wham! Anyhow had to get towed to the nearest place which was Firestone and had to get some new tires. Car is only 3 years old but it was time to replace them anyhow. Times a really tough right now since we are unemployed so I wasn't very happy with the sitch of an unexpected added expense but what can you do? The Firestone guy did not look like this in anyway but if we had we would of maybe negotiated a deal....LOL! We did however get one free tire though as they were running a special. I called my dealership buddy and he assured me it was a ok deal--even though he lost the sale to us....Nice chap he is.....

Been a long week.....Gearing up for the new year and all the craft fairs and such we will be dong come spring and summer for the jewelry biz....Been busy helping friends with a opening of a new venture....New storefront with painting and such....Got to decorate and shop for a lobby waiting area and that was fun.. Also had a few job interviews and people calling about jobs I applied for and I hate to say but I have not been interested in ANY of the jobs. Is it weird to say I am being picky...very picky! I rather hold out or suffer then go to a job just to get one or just make money. Times have changed and I want to be happy. Hubster and I have decided that we can totally be ok and happy without going back to corporate America. If we lost everything--our home etc.... as long as we have each other and the dogs we are ok......as we know we will survive....Living within our means has been ok.... Only thing that worries me these days is getting some sort of health insurance.....That maybe the only reason I have to go back to a corp job....YUCK!

Well time to go job search online....Gotta pay off them tires! damm how I hate how it eats up my fun Internet time! Oh well....Maybe that dream job is right around the corner....one can only hope and pray....

Show it off.....

Happy Nude Year!

Well as we heard we have had snow in 49 states! I know most of us are bundled up...But lets make sure to show off a bit....Nothing like a good flash to someone you love or are hot for! Remember it is Happy Nude Year so show it off!

Brad Majors is HOT!

Was watching Rocky Horror yesterday as I came across it while flipping through the channels....This movie is still one of my faves of all time and I thought I had to post a tidbit on how even as a young lad how I thought how very hot Peter as Rocky was and Barry as Steve Majors....It was one of those movies that kinda shaped me and kinda alerted me to having "those" kinda feelings for men....I still love Brad in his underwear......SO MY TYPE!! I know big BVDS man! But I loved it!! And still do!! :-)...

What a great classic!

Happy Nude Year!

Wow! Welcome to 2011 folks! Its going to be a good one!

Looking at you.....

and wishing you a VERY happy, healthy and prosperous new year! Rad homo is going to go out and about tonite for the eve...Invited to about 6 different events ( gosh we must be loved- he he)...Its funny as I can tell the hubster and I are getting old.....We wanted to stay home and just chill with the 3 dogs but we thought we better get on some duds and go out and celebrate. Big love and cheers to all my blog buds! I love ya!

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Thinking of you and yours on this Christmas Day! xo Rad

Merry ho ho ho X mas eve....

Happy Christmas eve.....I had to use a new fave---- Mr Adam Coussins. I just google him and I am in a better mood! I wonder if Santa can fit him in my stocking?

Shitty DayHad a poop kind of day! So many things got on my nerves today....I need a drink. Better yet I really wish I could get away. Getting close to changing it all and just giving up. So fed up! I know I need to hang in there but sometimes I feel it isn't worth it anymore. I want something to change and I guess I have to make the effort to get that ball rolling.... Oh how I wish it would get better. Oh if I have guardian angel now if the time man! HELP!

Haps B Bloggers ad Blogettes...

Found this new pic of my other husband Derrick Davenport....Sorry had to cut off the best part as I am trying to keep my blog at a rated R....Though it seems full frontal on men are ok these days for a R rating...Sing Hallelujah!

Hope your week goes well. We have a busy week ahead and then of course the holiday at the end of the week. Going to go ice skating tomorrow.....I cant wait!

Christmas Cocktail Festivity

Christmas cocktail party at our home tonite. Are you in Seattle? I really really wish some of you blog buds who I ADORE lived closer! Anyhow if you are in town tonite...Rad and Hubster would love to have you over for some holiday fun! E mail me and lets get our holiday engines started! Cheers!

Happy Holidays!

Here's to a wonderful weekend! Its going to be a busy one with shopping, dinners, and all the parties! Be careful out there! photo from one of my fave undies....Plus I just I love Jonathan Waud! This isn't him...I wish they used him for it though...

Happy Hump Day!

Hope your hump day is suppah delish....Just like this pic! :-)

BURLESQUE

Since Philip Morris wasn't playing anywhere here we went to see Burlesque yesterday! We went to the 1130am matinee for $6.....I enjoyed it and CA surprised me... The acting was indeed so-so... for even Cher..... and it was kinda disappointing as she only sang 2 songs ..But I still love her to death and the movie was so worth seeing as there are so many movies that are bad these days. This was good one considering some bad acting and a predictable plot.... Great music and lots of talent though and it was a pure delight! I give it a 7... ok bonus gay points...I give it a 9....

Snoqualmie Falls

Wanted to go see Philip Morris today but its such a limited release that it isn't even playing in Seattle! WTF! So we are off today to do some holiday shopping, errands and then over to see Snoqualmie Falls... The monsoon rains help the falls put on a big show so we are going to go check it out!

Happy Monday!

Know alot of you out there are very cold with the snowstorms....its crazy weather all over.... We had over 3 inches of rain in 24 hours so we are so waterlogged in the NW! I thought some Adam Coussins would help you generate some heat today.... He is one of my fave guys to google.

Happy Monday to you!

Whats up?

Feeling better today....THANKS for all those that sent me messages and well wishes...Awww shucks! I know it will get better and I know I am a survivor so it should all be ok in the long run... I have a feeling even better than it was ever too... I almost deleted the post as I was in the moment. But when I started this blog I did so with the intention of sharing so here we are years later....In fact I think my 3 or is it 4 year anniversary is coming up in Jan for this blog....Wow! Its fun and sometimes yes very embarrassing to look back on all my post through the years....But It is who I am and what was going on at the time so.....Anyhow thanks again to those that took the time to communicate with me and make sure Rad was ok....xoxo

So what has Rad been up too? No job gives me less free time and more worry for one which is strange. Anyhow enough of that boring subject. I have been eating better than ever and losing weight which is cool. Hubs and I are eating right and exercising and just trying to be more healthy in general. Its more of a life change when it comes to eating so now that we have been doing it for months it is not so bad and actually easy....We still splurge on occasion its just we now follow rules better on what and when we can have the good stuff....Now its just a bonus or special treat when we have sweets or breads, rice, pasta, sodas etc.

Been watching alot of movies and going to $6 matinees... Movies are like $12 these days so we go in the am and catch a flick early ... Going to Burlesque this week. Been renting movies ALOT! from the Red Box... its rocks! Only a buck! So its couch time with the kids and we just chill. Kids are being spoiled that we are home more that's for sure.

Looking for a job...kinda...going full force in Jan on that---Started a Hawaiian Jewelry business and will be doing that to supplement the income.... Going to do all the Hawaiian festivals in 2011.

That's a quick update for now....I am jonesing for my blog fix! Going to go read up on all of you now that I am in the mood! Hope you all are having a good Dec and holiday season! ho ho ho!

Down Time

Feeling down. Yesterday was a bummer of a day and everything that could go wrong did. I start to think of all the shit going on and it all tornadoes into a whirlwind of worry for me. So yesterday was a fucked up day for me...I don't have many of those but lately I just have so much on my plate. Just so much going on in my life to juggle and with that it sometimes gets overwhelming. I think I was just overloaded with all I have going on right now. Last night took a "pain pill" and I finally relaxed. ahhhhhh.... I was able to relax and then calm down. Finally went to bed at 2..... I am thinking straighter now this morning and I know everything will work out.... All my worry about all the shit work, starting a business and just making sure ends are met daily will work out and transpire as I am a strong guy and capable of making it all work.

Just every now and then I just get tired and defeated. It all comes to a tidal wave of emotions. Its difficult as I said many times B4 my mom was my confidant.... my sounding board.....my BFF.....so I am lost and alone these days in that area for support as the most important part and element in my life is someone to talk to at times like this... Hubby tries his best but we all know you need another ear than that sometimes.....I do love him so but sometimes I need a break from that.... Friends? Many.... but not any I feel comfortable with that I can confide in or vent too....Plus lately I feel like a burden.....there's that guys who lost his mom and job...what a loser! LOL! I know get over it Rad!! But you get that vibe from people you know...Im tired of some people even being rude..... I am ready to punch out a few of them and might do so soon.......It is funny to see who really supports you in rough times. Im not one to reach out... I do try though. My blog buddies and people I would never realize are now here for us....Those we thought would are so not....Funny how that works....You can so see the good from the bad....

I know I should think about going to see a therapist to chat with but don't have the funds for that! LOL!! Oh.... I am just rambling....Sorry just venting out bored on a Sunday am...checking out my fave blogs which seem to get my mind off the crap I have in my head. Like I said things are ok......gosh it could be so worst..... Si I know we will make it work!!!! I just miss being able to call or go visit mom and she would make me all strong again...she was my power pill...my energizer...I need to try to do that alone now...... so very hard! Ok back to you regular scheduled blog fun now... Thanks for the ear......

Bay Got Back--I mean RAD HOMO IS BACK....

I have been so BUSY!! you would think being unemployed would give me more time-- WRONG!! I am going to try hard to get into the swing of making time to blog...Mostly I miss being able to go and visiting all my fave blogs...I feel so out of the loop....But I also miss sharing my shit too!

I am going to make a LARGER effort!! I bet I can do it!! Its the tail end of the year folks! Hope it is going well for you! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

Happy Thanksgiving

From Rad Homo to you! We all have many things we can be thankful for today. Have a nice holiday ladies and gents! gobble gobble....

Justin Timberlake - Ellen ( gingerbread man)

Deep Freeze

Its a deep freeze in Seattle--its like the Artic! Snowed all day yesterday and then winds came through and it was a mini blizzard....Today we are all trying to recover--an stay warm...Sunny and Crisp! High today will be about 21 degrees.... brrrrrrr!!

Rad Homo is back.....

I get so emotional baby....

Rad is back....Had a top notch time in NYC....Shopped like crazy and did allot of sightseeing! It was awesome....Loved it.... Now back and trying to play catch up....Seattle is COLD! We are suppose to get snow today and tomorrow... Winter has arrived early....

Feeling depressed this weekend- This whole Thanksgiving holiday and my mom not being here is affecting me....as she was all about the holidays and we always spent so much time with her... So many traditions with it all that we did...making pies, homemade stuffing...Hanging out on T day talking and laughing......and then for years her and I would do our marathon shopping the day after T day and spend the whole day doing our x mas shopping...going to lunch and then dinner... We used to call it our "shop to we drop" day. We would start in the wee hours and go to about 9 that evening....good times. So I'm having a hard time. It was a special day for us to be together. So many other traditions...Its got me all emotional.

Did have Thanksgiving with the family yesterday. As Dad is going to the bay area to see family for the holiday....So we did dinner yesterday....I tried to make it feel the same.....I know dad tried......God bless him....But it was lame---well more of a disappointment for me really....I tried so hard to make it a day to remember her-- I tried to suck it up but some of my family members that came got on my nerves big time and it was the same old shit...I know they didnt find it lame at all...Im sure they had a good time! But they are clueless..... I know I need to let it go but its hard......They wasn't around when she was here much anyhow....Only came around when mom and dad had something at the house like yesterdays T day dinner....They never had my parents or us over or any invites through the years....for Thanksgiving or a BBQ etc........it was always ma and pa having something or hubby and I....and it was the same this year.....Dad had the dinner and he made the turkey and we made the ham and all the rest of them brought desserts...Had about 8 pies so it was a lovely Pie Thanksgiving.......Thanks for the pies people! whatever......Of course they all ate like pigs.....and took home pies...LOL!! Anyhow long story short the day just ate at me...I know it should not of but it did...I tried hard to not let it bug me but things in my head had me in a mood....I really need to learn to tolerate and relax and look at the big picture.....how they maybe looking at it....I do try.... Vodka didn't help this time though...LOL! It was just a disappointing day for me.

Another thing that was eating me was not one of them invited the hubby and I to Thanksgiving this year...I know how lame of me to think or care about.... but really......They all have things going on but we didn't get one invite from a family member. I shouldn't care but I do. Now I know how my mom felt about my sisters,brother, aunts etc....She was so right about them all... But hubby said I should look at it as maybe they thought we had plans as we are always so busy and have a life....Much like ma and pa did in years past.....have a life..... Funny I guess I'm getting old. I know I have to get over the family crap..... Now that mom is gone I have no need to keep them in my life it seems...Or do I feel the need too....Maybe that will change in time...They are so keep up with the Jones sometimes if you know what I mean...Its all about being defensive, petty and fake so much of the time and it gets old.....I have to get over it though...Mom did many times...

We were invited by our gal pals to a T day dinner this week for Turkey day..its at a good buddy of theirs... It was really nice of them to think of us.....So sweet...I think they knew we had no where to go....So they got the gang they hang out with to invite us......Feeling weird about it....Kinda like a third wheel or charity... Not sure or know the people much that will be there. I know we should go and just have some fun and enjoy a day with people....I am just glad we had one invite...LOL! I guess we are not liked anymore! Oh well!! .But its feels funny....strange.....we also feel like we should just maybe do a quiet T day with the kids at home. Make moms pies....Will see....I'm just in a funk.. I hope I can get through it....Oh phooey! This is going to be a rough week....I miss having someone to talk too at times like this.

Alec Monopoly

Had a GREAT time in NYC...Had to share this cool print I picked up at this pop up show in NYC.. Thought it was so cool! We were at the Rawhide having cocktails and this was going on across the street. More here... cool eh? Share more of my adventures in the big apple when I get a moment to blog....In all NYC rocks! Hubby and I had a super time and we want to go back again! Its OUR kind of place for sure!!!

NEW YORK- Here We Come!!

I am getting excited! We are off to NYC ! Here comes the big apple this next Tuesday and will be there for a short stay--Just to Saturday night. we got tickets to Nate Berkus on Wed and Wendy Williams on Thurs. We will also try to get in all the sights and of course shopping.... Any blog mates have suggestions on what to do see etc? Believe it or not I have never been so its a first for me! Woot woot!

Good times!

LOL! From last weeks H ball.... Hubby, Our Nephew Dusitn ( who is now 13) and Rad Homo...

Happy Halloweena- Muwah!

Haps Hallweena to you! Its been a wild weekend. Hope you get your tricks and treats if you haven't done so already! xo Rad Homo

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Guilty Pleasures On LOGO

I have to give props and kudos to a few shows that I am so enjoying right now...I am sure many of you are as well. The A List and The Arrangement deserves a shout out! LOVE IT! Programming is looking up a LOGO! Please check it out if you haven't done so yet...

Check out all of it here--You can watch the episodes..get all the dirt...Lovely! See it all here on LOGO

Crush On Cord Overstreet

Just more reasons to love GLEE. Chad Overstreet is one hot add to the show! Thanks to ManCrush Blog for the photo montage he did of this weeks episode below....LOVED the Rocky Horror theme and of course loved all the skin and ab show from all the boys!

Halloween Fun!

Hubby as the Boy Wonder Robin-Cat Girl-Snookie and Rad Homo as the Green Lantern! We had a fun night and these are Snookies pics.....We have many more that we took but I need to download them as there was a lot of good costumes at the bash...Took a bunch of pics! The joker below is our nephew Dustin.....More to post soon! Happy Monday y'all.....

Halloween Costume

Tonite is the big annual Halloween Bash we go to every year.......I have posted pics from each year as I have been a Skeleton, Amy Winehouse...and last year a goth to name a few.... So this year we thought to go for a superhero theme.... Hubby is going as Robin...I almost went as Batman but could not find the right tights...LOL! At least ones that looked right. I did find one I liked...The Green Lantern! So that is what I am wearing! Just hope there isn't another fella in the same outfit....I would die! Well as long as I look beter then it will be ok....ha! I will make sure to post some pics!!!

Da Pumpkin Patch!

Went to the Pumpkin Patch last weekend and took some shots..It was s sunny and lovely fall day! I like to call it FALLGASIM! Ive been really busy helping some friends with a remodel project on a house for the last few weeks ....so I have been busy!!! Still deciding what to do with this split in the road we have before us.....Losing our jobs gives us the opportunity to change our lives and so many paths/roads have opened up....

What do I want to do--where to work? Work for someone? or do our own thing? Do we want to move to another state? So many questions and so many things to think about and change. Right now just going doing what we can as it has been a little over a month. I do know I want to do what will make us happy....Its funny as I am busier then I was when I was employed! I need a vacation man! LOL! So we are off to NYC in Nov! Cant wait! Below are more shots of the pumpkin patch!

On Vacation

Back from Hawaii! You would think I would have lots of free time as I have been home for about a week and without a job....But busy as a bee! Will catch up with my blog soon as I can! Miss me? e mail me anytime and or go to my Facebook! xxoo Rad