Same sex ruling last week on marriage in California makes me happy! I am closer to getting my dream wedding one day! I have always wanted a traditional Hawaiian wedding!!!! But I don't think Jeff nor I will be in a holoku ( gown). We will both be in tradtional Hawaiian grooms wear which is white long sleeve shirts and white pants with a sash....I want my sash to red and he can be red or any color of the Hawaiian chain....then a few leis and barefoot....on the beach......I will make sure you are invited! Its going to be great! I looked for a example picture online to no avail.....I see some of you are thinking a sash? WTF? Heres is the best example I could find.