Monday, October 10, 2011

THANKS to my Reasons, Seasons and Lifetimes

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for aREASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that once our need has been met and our desires fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it as it is real, but only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.


Mind Of Mine said...

I really agree with this post. I often had the same thoughts when I have fallen out or drifted apart from a good friend and I have come to realise that the reason they have come into my life has been fulfilled.

Queer Heaven said...

Rad... what a lovely post!

CJ/Rick said...


searchboy said...

Thank You! Very True and quite beautiful.


H A R R Y G O A Z said...

Have a SUPER week !

DeepBlue said...

Saying so much in so few words!
Thanks. I'm stealing this. ;)

BosGuy said...

Love this post and love how you expressed it.


Jeff Chandler said...

Beautiful mate! I completely agree with all of it and it makes me feel free to know that everything is as it is meant to be.
Looking forward to following your blog! :-)