James Marsden-

Husband in my head...

You all know how much I love James and how he is one of my husbands in my head as I have mentioned on so MANY occasions. Stalker! Just kidding! Well here he is in August Man in this months issue....More here.

On the eve of his movie HOP which opens tomorrow! I love James and cant wait to see it! I am going to go to a matinee of HOP next week for sure! I also seem to have a thing for Russell Brand too these days...... Something about a funny man with an accent!

Happy Birthday to me......

Today is RADs 45th birthday! YES 45! Call the fire department when the cake is lit! Last year I refused to give my age but oh heck...Yes Im a geezer! Time to just get over it....

Not much in a celebratory mood as I have never been one for b-day party's and such anyhow.....So going to lunch with today with some great friends and then going to a quiet dinner tonite and then lunch with my dad tomorrow. Very low key and with those I love...

Its bittersweet this year as these pics are from last year when my mom was still with us.... she was so happy to get me this guava cake. Been thinking of her so much these days. Its been over 8 months now and I miss her everyday so so much. I have been a bit emotional these last few weeks. Many reasons but one was watching Holly's World on TV and seeing Josh ( LOVE HIM!) on last weeks and this weeks episodes (he met his real mom) it made me miss my mom and also made me miss having someone to confide in (he and Holly are so close). God I am wellin up writing this!!! Anyhow hubby and I was in tears! I just wish I had my BFF closer.... he is moving to Hawaii from AZ next week.....and I just haven't found someone close to home and my heart to open up too. Sucks deluxe! Thank god for my blog buds! They help thats for sure! Anyhow.... I better go and shave and get ready to head out the door to make this day count! BTW don't you dare say I look 45! I would like to think I am well in looks dept so far--I will admit however that my body feels the age......

Time to go .....Hope I get a cake so I can blow and make a wish! ( I wonder if I will even get a cake this year?) I bet Hubby gets me a cupcake!

xo Rad

Goodbye Liz

RIP Our darling Liz Taylor... You did so much and brought so much. Say hi to my mom in heaven... Love and Aloha xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Springtime has arrived!

Which means sunshine, flowers, and less clothing.... Bring it on!

Sunday morns

Cup of Joe.....

My my....What a weekend! Having a nice cup of Joe this sunny Seattle Sunday morning... Want a cup?

Mr Saturday...

HAWT eh? Thought we needed my pic for a Mr. Saturday!! Uh huh!! Indeed! Anyways.... what up dogs? I swear I have no time to blog these days! I do have time to read my faves ( not as much as I would like) but as my buddy Mark said the other day at Tales of a Sissy.. as he hit it perfect and I feel the exact same! There seems to be less time when you don't have a daily job for sure and I am busy as ever and the time ( what time?) goes by super quick. I remember waiting for he weekends to come and now weeks just seem to fly by... WTF!

Anyhow hope all is well with u! We are going bowling tonite!! Its a new thing we enjoy with family and friends.... We was suppose to go out last night and hit the bars and clubs for a b day and a going away event but we went out on St Pattys and got home at 3am! Yes 3 am! We had a blast at a concert ( The Green) and partied hard!! So yesterday was a day to recoup instead Seems like I am getting old and just cant do a 2 nighter these days...LOL!

Well off to start my Saturday... Stay Rad! xoxoxox

Patty Cake Patty Cake

Heres some cute mans...

And how are you this day after St Pattys? Hope all is well! Have a great weekend!

time to roll into the week.....

Monday Monday...Blah blah....Had a crazy busy week last week and I think its about to be the same this week....busy busy!

I love skate boys.....while growing up my cousins used to be really good skateboarders and bikers and so they were an influence on me since they were older......so I got into it all as well especially bikes but I was never as good on a skateboard like they were. It was a form of transpo for us--at least us kind of boys....I think back to my youth even in high school and I was always on a bike or skateboard as I could never could afford a car......oh well...I can thank all that biking and such for keeping me in great shape and for that bubble butt I was rewarded with.....

Well onward and upward to the week....Have a good one!

Pretty Boy

I have a thing for this pretty boy...Looking good Zac!

Happy March

Happy March! I was in a furry mood today! I cant believe its already March.

Busy as a bee....

bzzzzzzz... I have been busy as a bee and it seems my blogging has been the one to suffer....I do go out and read my fave blogs but I don't have the time these days to post as much.....Shit! But hope you understand.....I hope to be more "with it" soon....Hope you all had a nice holiday weekend and all is well. Had to post a Darren Criss pic....hes a doll and can you imagine him singing to you? Love them Glee boys...... See the whole spread in OUT here...... Keep in touch as I am an e mail away! xo Rad

Happy Valentines Day

Hope you all have a good lova's day! xo Rad

Love is in the air.....

Its a Valentine weekend...... Hope all is well and you all have some love...or lust....or just some plain old dirty sex to make it a good one...

Super Bowl Sunday

Have a nice Superbowl Sunday! I know many of you will be watching the game and going to parties and such and some of us just go shopping at the mall... Whatever you do hope it's super....

Happy Friday

How u doing? I have been busy! I so didn't want to get out of bed this am but decided I better get this day started and got up....Then noticed the furnace didn't fire up and so it must of went out again! Had a guy come check it last week and it had some clogging of oil or something to that effect and he tuned it up and fixed it.....Well I thought he did....anyhow it went off again and I am pissed. Unexpected shit like this is not needed when money is tight but we can only take a deep breath and well you know just swallow....LOL! Grrrrr!!!

Got alot going on this weekend.....One of my BFF's is having her citizenship party tonite. She became a US citizen about a month ago. She is from Sweden and I just adore her. We met a few years ago and hit it off from he moment we met. She has developed into a very close dear heart and I am so happy for her....So she and her hubby Shawn are having the shindig at a place in Belltown to celebrate....The Rendezvous- The Grotto........Should be a blast! And the guest list is good! Will be nice to see alot old friends and colleagues..... woot woot! I am sure we will have a marvy time! I wanted to go get a haircut and a new outfit...but now maybe not with the furnace eating up the extra cash! DAMMMIT! Oh well I am sure I can figure something out. Rads wardrobe closet is vast and I m sure I can dig up something cute....sigh....I have to be a recession unemployed fashionista I guess....

Tomorrow night we have another B day party to attend---Her name is Juku and she is a havenese.....Its a dog party! She is best buds with our kids.....I helped our gal pals find her years ago so I am kinda a god parent! It should be entertaining.

Well hope all is well with you and hope our weekends nice! Catch ya soon! xo Rad

HAPPY 5th BIRTHDAY to me...

RAD HOMO

Today is my tiny little blogs 5th birthday/anniversary! Hard to believe that 5 years ago today I thought it would be fun to start a blog for some fun...Didn't know I would be here 5 years later still blogging. It started as The Adventures of a Rad Ass Homo...I thought it would be fun to post and keep track of my adventures...back then most fellow blog mates and I referred myself as RAH and it was much more media related....It has changed over the years and now its just A Rad Homo and I use RAD instead of RAH and the content has changed a bit but it has also stayed true to me. Its still my online diary of sorts and I have come to think of it as my online scrapbook---nothing to major or deep....well sometimes it is..... It has been fun and so well worth it. I love to go back and see what I was up too in years past and look at my likes-dislikes and how I change....oh and how I have such fine taste in men! he he.....

The best part of my blog is the friends and people I have been able to connect with due to blogging... All across the world even....I have been able to meet allot of fine folks and some have become very good friends! Its just incredible the support I get when times are tough and cheers when times are good...its so damm cool and heartwarming and so many of you can be considered family in my heart....I love you guys! You know who you are! :-)

Well looks like I get to go get a cupcake or something today to celebrate this! 5 Years! WOW!

JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE & ANDREW GARFIELD

Pic from the latest issue of W mag....So we just watched The Social Network last week....It was good right! I haven't watched the Golden Globes from last night as its still on the DVR...but I heard The Social Network picked up 4 awards including best drama movie.... Kudos!

Week started with need for new tires....

What a week....Started with a blow out on interstate 5 last Saturday.....We were on our way in pouring rain up north and then wham! Anyhow had to get towed to the nearest place which was Firestone and had to get some new tires. Car is only 3 years old but it was time to replace them anyhow. Times a really tough right now since we are unemployed so I wasn't very happy with the sitch of an unexpected added expense but what can you do? The Firestone guy did not look like this in anyway but if we had we would of maybe negotiated a deal....LOL! We did however get one free tire though as they were running a special. I called my dealership buddy and he assured me it was a ok deal--even though he lost the sale to us....Nice chap he is.....

Been a long week.....Gearing up for the new year and all the craft fairs and such we will be dong come spring and summer for the jewelry biz....Been busy helping friends with a opening of a new venture....New storefront with painting and such....Got to decorate and shop for a lobby waiting area and that was fun.. Also had a few job interviews and people calling about jobs I applied for and I hate to say but I have not been interested in ANY of the jobs. Is it weird to say I am being picky...very picky! I rather hold out or suffer then go to a job just to get one or just make money. Times have changed and I want to be happy. Hubster and I have decided that we can totally be ok and happy without going back to corporate America. If we lost everything--our home etc.... as long as we have each other and the dogs we are ok......as we know we will survive....Living within our means has been ok.... Only thing that worries me these days is getting some sort of health insurance.....That maybe the only reason I have to go back to a corp job....YUCK!

Well time to go job search online....Gotta pay off them tires! damm how I hate how it eats up my fun Internet time! Oh well....Maybe that dream job is right around the corner....one can only hope and pray....

Show it off.....

Happy Nude Year!

Well as we heard we have had snow in 49 states! I know most of us are bundled up...But lets make sure to show off a bit....Nothing like a good flash to someone you love or are hot for! Remember it is Happy Nude Year so show it off!

Brad Majors is HOT!

Was watching Rocky Horror yesterday as I came across it while flipping through the channels....This movie is still one of my faves of all time and I thought I had to post a tidbit on how even as a young lad how I thought how very hot Peter as Rocky was and Barry as Steve Majors....It was one of those movies that kinda shaped me and kinda alerted me to having "those" kinda feelings for men....I still love Brad in his underwear......SO MY TYPE!! I know big BVDS man! But I loved it!! And still do!! :-)...

What a great classic!